Negativity is one of the worst things in the world. It can hold back the next greatest idea in the world or the next innovation. Negativity can keep you from your next step or even your own greatness. This is why we have to keep negative thing away from you.
What are negative things? Things that hold you back, things that control you for bad, and things that keep you away from your goal. AKA things not conducive to your growth. Not all pain is bad and not all pain is good. But pain can cause growth. One of the best pains is honesty. Honesty with ourselves can help us get to a goal or even grow as a human being. One of my goals is to stay active and energetic. This will come from my discipline and mindset.
Discipline comes from being honest. Honestly telling yourself you need to be consistent. Honestly telling yourself you have an issue. Some of us are not disciplined because we are not honest with our own flaws and shortcomings. We can be the most honest with others but ourselves can be a sore subject to us. Let’s be very honest with ourselves in everything.
In a the world of social media we have been given access to the world. The world can see our lives at a press of an app. These apps include Facebook, Tumblr, Instagram, and Blogs. These can be used as tools of good purpose or weapons of mass destruction. The good purpose can be influencing others to do great, telling people to beware of a bad product, and awareness of a bad system. These are moving the world forward with energy. Some of us get stuck on the part of pointing out a problem. This points to the instant gratification of the one click world. Which in the end is just lip-service. Lip-service is the art of saying something without action. Some are content with just lip service. This shows a laziness in them. Some are social media warriors. saying that things are bad instead of looking for solutions. The solutions that can go into a future entrepreneur’s hand to execute it. This is The Lazy Man’s Hustle. The Hustle that brings solutions to the world.
Love is in the air this week of Valentine’s. The birds are chirping many are searching but so many are lost on the meaning of love. Love has many faces and many facets. The faces of love can be sweet, passionate, empowering, and tough. The sweet love is what we look for during Valentines. This is the love we see in the movies. Like my favorite movie Hitch. Hitch is a love advisor who falls in love in a movie. He looks for ways to impress the woman he has feelings for. This is what most people who fantasize love want. The perfect kind of love that is freeing and so on. No controlling you or telling you what to do just love. This comes from having a over-fantasization of your parents and caregivers. Most parents/caregivers are selfless human beings. They give you what you need and sometimes what you want. This is the spoiling in a way. Spoiling is another way of saying enabling. Enabling is letting people do and say what they want to their own detriment. Enabling and empowering are sometimes confused. The confusion comes from seeing others getting instant gratification from their detrimental actions and seeing that as empowering them. Empowerment doesn’t come from giving a candy to a baby. The candy can instantly gratify a sweet tooth and a frazzled mother. The empowering choice would be to give the baby water or milk. Water and milk are nutritious for babies. This can help the baby grow into a powerful adult with great comprehension of the world.
Let’s not be enablers! Enablers are lazy and suffer from cowardice. They do love but it’s an overlove that could end with them in an early grave from stress and mistreatment. You must teach others how to treat you. Forgiveness is only for your soul. The trespasser musn’t know you forgave them. Telling the trespasser you forgive them will enable them to do worst. Then you end up stuck in a vicious cycle.