Are tough times upon you? Did you lose a job? Is everyone turning their backs on you? Well that is all apart of growth! Growth is when you learn a skill from an experience. Of ten when we think of growth we think of height. Well I like that idea because you do elevate as a person when you grow.
One of my elements was when I got into a bad car accident in 2009. I fell asleep behind the wheel on a 24 hour trip. I learned that with more preparation and less dwelling on the problem. I can solve everything. I could have actually gotten sleep the night before, but I didn’t. I was too engaged on planning the trip instead of executing it. When came to the actual execution I was too exhausted to execute it properly.
Those two lessons have helped me because I use it for every one of my endeavors. I have done more with more preparation and less dwelling than anything. I finished school and became a best selling author. I have grown so much since the accident that it is a thing of the past. I could dwell on it but I forgot about it after a few years. (Maybe a head injury.)
Solution: Grow from the good and the bad situations. THere is always a lesson.
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Self-Hate is the most destructive kind of love. Why do I say it is a destructive kind of love? Because What I have observed is that we are not born to hate anything. We are born to learn but definitely not hate. When I see a baby crying for food or attention. I see an entity learning how to fill its belly or satiate a need. There is no hate there. I have never seen a deer hate someone without having a past with that person. I see self-hate as a love of the past.
The past was good to some but was bad to others. When the ones who were mistreated by the past look back they see themselves being mistreated. They just see it at face value nothing more nothing less. When they want to improve themselves they remember the time they wanted to do something different and failed at it. This stops them from trying again out of fear of ridicule and mistreatment. Why is this such a horrible thing? Because success doesn’t happen at a push of the button. Sometimes, you have to push the button till you don’t have a finger to press it anymore.
Self-Hate will hold you back from building relationships. Building relationships is a lost art form. The love of our past makes us live in the past. When we meet people of a certain color, demeanor, or even height. We can be prone to mistreat them because of our past. Self-hate can make our allies look like our enemies and our enemies look like our friends. We can end up helping our enemy and breaking our friends. The same friends that have been with us through thick and thin, Can look like our enemy from one bad day.
Self-hate makes us be very patient with our enemies but very impatient with our friends. Our enemy can be threatening to kill us but self-hate makes us laugh it off. Our friend could forget us at the store one time and we want to break ties with them forever. Why does self-hate make us love our enemies more? Because self-hate wants us dead.
Self-Hate is happy when you handle your problems passively. Self-hate loves to see you stressing from self-inflicted pain. Self-hate will change your life priorities to where you are paying the bar before you pay your bills. To where you are paying the store before paying the bills. Self-hate loves you being a detriment to yourself.
The solution to Self-Hate is very easy. Self-Hate is caused by unresolved conflict. When we are told to forgive someone it is meant to heal yourself. Your mind can play the rationalization game very well. It can make everything look like the fault of others in an instance. When we can forgive the past and take the effort to build ourselves in many ways. We can learn to move forward and love ourselves. Effort is an amazing game changer. When we get out there and resolve our problems.
Propaganda comes in many forms! Propaganda can be the show you watched where all the rich people have a heart of gold. It could be the show about a leader which only shows one part of their life but leave out all the bad or progressive stuff. I believe many of us have been victims of propaganda. When we mistreat each other because we have been told to think of each other or if you see your friend of a different race as “one of the good ones” You Are A Victim of Propaganda. If you see yourself as “one of the good ones” You Are A Victim of Propaganda. Propaganda is defined as especially bias or misleading information used to promote a cause or point of view. Propaganda can be “your not the solution to your life, We ARE!”. Propaganda is very detrimental to us as human beings and wishes for us to not think critically of it.
In my book Powerfuls I go in depth about thinking critically. Even in school I have had to look outside the class and the text. Question everything given to you it could be a poison hidden in a good meal.
“A Title is nothing but righteous sounding words!” – Durrell
Titles are given are given to people and things to show significance to the person. Commonly heard titles are Manager, Supervisor, Celebrity, and Author. These are commonly given to people without them earning it. Lets be serious. We have met that manager/supervisor who did not earn their title. In my book Powerfuls: The Book of Power Gain, I go into depth about leadership and I point out the horrible supervisors that never had a leadership bone in their body. They were the worst with people and never understood the selflessness in leadership. This proves they didn’t earn the title of leader. Their are many people in the world who claim entrepreneur but don’t have a company or own their time. I know many an author that pays people to write for them and they take the credit for it. This isn’t Authorship or writing to me. It shows you just wanted the title that you never earned.
Watch the Title game!!
If you are not being properly compensated for your title. You are being hustled for free work. I know several people that have fallen for this in life. They are given the title of Super Duper Janitor of room 403 and making $2 an hour. They hold this with the highest regard. No respect from others or being compensated properly. This is a mental disease of ego. I define ego as the denial of current condition. The people who hold these titles in high regard have never had anything. They see themselves as top dog while getting orders from THE top dog. This can be to their detriment.
BE HONEST ABOUT YOUR CURRENT CONDITION AND FIND WAYS OUT OF IT. BE VERY HUMBLE TO THE POINT THAT YOUR ACCOMPLISHMENTS BECOME A GRAIN OF SALT TO YOURSELF!!!!
Well, Well, Well, SO you got yourself in a bad predicament? You’re having the “WHY DOES THIS KEEP HAPPENING TO ME!!” mindset. People always using you for ideas, Walking all over you, Never want you to have a well being. Well what is the solution. We always see the problems in the world but never know how to solve them. We like to see them grow into a devastating detriment to us. Why do we do this? Do we want to be right that bad in life? We want to tell our positive selves “I told you so?” That’s a suicidal path that leads to nothing but pestilence. We will be the bane of others existence with that mindset. What’s the solution? Look at every opportunity as your next level in uncomfort. The best way to face uncertainty is by confronting adversity. Still preparation is key. Most of us don’t think solutions because of the initial panic. Everyone goes through hardships. As long as you are on this earth you will be tested. If you lost your survival instinct listening to oppressors. The world will keep testing that survival lack of survival until you get one. Take every ‘failure’ as a lesson and never be condescending to yourself. The people who aren’t supposed to be around you will do it enough. Your job is to take control of your life. Organize then mobilize. Be the fear that holds you back and impose it on your weaknesses and oppressors. These things deserve it way more than you do.
BE THE SOLUTION!!
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When I tell you to be a local voter what do you think? Maybe its literally going out there and putting a ballot in the box. You would be on the right track but I want you to think deeper. We as a people living in a country where the Presidential election becomes the biggest celebrity event. We keep hearing about the last president we elected and why he’s ruining the country. You have to think deeper than that a local vote can help change things for you where you are at. Most likely at a faster rate. We see the president more often than the local candidates. The President is seen doing everything from looking at the sun to getting a free pizza at Denny’s. This makes it seem more personal. The local candidates are barely given any media time. We have to go searching them out or they come to our door at a time when we don’t answer doors for strangers leaving a flyer that ends up in the trash. This is most of us in our daily lives. Our bodies tell us to avoid certain things but we keep ignoring it til it makes us pay a doctor millions of dollars for something that could have been handled immediately. The local politician works closer to you. They live in your community. You have driven by them countless times going to work. You probably couldn’t list 3 local politicians right now. The one’s that handle your tax rates and where your taxes go. Be a local voter in your life. It will change your life. Deal with what is going on right in front of you. Then expand from there. Be your own advocate! Build your dream and make it a reality. The Ark wasn’t built in a day. Moses wasn’t told to hop in God’s hands and he would carry his people to the promise land. It took them a long time. Stop looking for instant gratification and build. Put that first brick down. Do the research for the foundation you need. BE YOUR LOCAL VOTER!!
The world is full of 400 confirmed mental illnesses. We have depression, PTSD, Emotion Stifiling, Ego-driven, etc. The two mental illnesses I really don’t like are suicidal and self-destrutive. There is a difference between suicidal people and self-destructive people. The suicidal are the final step for the self-destructive. The self destructive person will do anything to sabotage their advancement in life. You could give a self-destructive person the world and they will set it on fire in a matter of seconds. This shows they are out to destroy anyones advancement. They feel like because they are stuck in a detrimental mindset. The world needs to have the same mindset of self-destruction. You can help them advance themselves but in the end you will be burned by the bad energy. This bad energy will leave you looking like boo boo the fool. You can become the self-destructive way.
How to spot a self-destructive person? The self-destructive person is hard to spot from their exterior. Externally they could have the biggest smile or the most focus on their goals. When you dig deeper it is a sad clown effect. The sad clown can tell the most jokes and make others laugh but when it comes to their happiness, they never find it. This is the reason behind their constant giving up and dragging you down. Because misery needs company. If they expect you to bend to everything they do. They are self-destructive. If they want you to break your principles, They are self-destructive. If you have something you want to improve about yourself, They will tell you it’s dumb. Learn to observe. Self- Destructive people are opposed to positive change. When they see your tree growing. They will unjustly chop it down.
Solutions for the self-destructive: The world doesn’t owe you anything. Work for your improvement and flourish in success. Everything is a process and every process has a series of steps. Learn the art of patience. Everyone didn’t have your life experience. Some people have been hurt far worst than you and succeeded. They found faith in themselves and others. They became better than their past selves with patience and drive. All that misdirected anger you have inside can be redirected into a powerful love for positive change.
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From Star wars to Batman, all stories are based in fact. Be it a traumatizing experience on a personal level or a horrible experience we have had together. All creativity comes tradgedy. We never want to hear a boring story. We need a conflict in our fiction. Be it us versus the big bad army, Being attack by aliens, going against the odds, or losing a loved one. We have all been there. Events like these make the best stories. When was the last time you read a story about a very happy individual with a happy day? Those go well in baby stories until the baby loses its mom. These are the best things to build from. Everyone loves the movie series Star Wars by Georg Lucas. The crazy truth is…They are all based on World War II. He saw the dogfight films from the war and wanted to recreate them. When you see the creativity of the special effects team making these films, It’s Impressive. Lucas’s fact-based turn to fiction has become one of the most successful franchises in the world. This should inspire you to write about your tragedies and put a spin on them. Tragedies in my life, influenced me to write the book The Lazy Man’s Hustle. I was at a very low point in my life for a year. Noone was hiring and no money was coming to me. I would lay in bed all day. I was very depressed. I felt I wasn’t worth anything. Then I started having Ideas. I went to several different events around the U.S. all on my savings. This really helped me see the entrepenuerial side of the business world. I saw how much of my time was wasted building for another persons wealth. This is when I started a landscaping business, a podcast, and started writing comics. I would sell these and make a good amount of money back. This inspired me to write The Lazy Man’s Hustle. I saw too many people sad with their lives because they were jobless or didn’t have the drive to leave a horrible job. They chose to be victims. This is how the fact of being jobless, helped my creativity. WHAT CAN YOU CREATE FROM TRAGEDY?