Self-Hate is the most destructive kind of love. Why do I say it is a destructive kind of love? Because What I have observed is that we are not born to hate anything. We are born to learn but definitely not hate. When I see a baby crying for food or attention. I see an entity learning how to fill its belly or satiate a need. There is no hate there. I have never seen a deer hate someone without having a past with that person. I see self-hate as a love of the past.
The past was good to some but was bad to others. When the ones who were mistreated by the past look back they see themselves being mistreated. They just see it at face value nothing more nothing less. When they want to improve themselves they remember the time they wanted to do something different and failed at it. This stops them from trying again out of fear of ridicule and mistreatment. Why is this such a horrible thing? Because success doesn’t happen at a push of the button. Sometimes, you have to push the button till you don’t have a finger to press it anymore.
Self-Hate will hold you back from building relationships. Building relationships is a lost art form. The love of our past makes us live in the past. When we meet people of a certain color, demeanor, or even height. We can be prone to mistreat them because of our past. Self-hate can make our allies look like our enemies and our enemies look like our friends. We can end up helping our enemy and breaking our friends. The same friends that have been with us through thick and thin, Can look like our enemy from one bad day.
Self-hate makes us be very patient with our enemies but very impatient with our friends. Our enemy can be threatening to kill us but self-hate makes us laugh it off. Our friend could forget us at the store one time and we want to break ties with them forever. Why does self-hate make us love our enemies more? Because self-hate wants us dead.
Self-Hate is happy when you handle your problems passively. Self-hate loves to see you stressing from self-inflicted pain. Self-hate will change your life priorities to where you are paying the bar before you pay your bills. To where you are paying the store before paying the bills. Self-hate loves you being a detriment to yourself.
The solution to Self-Hate is very easy. Self-Hate is caused by unresolved conflict. When we are told to forgive someone it is meant to heal yourself. Your mind can play the rationalization game very well. It can make everything look like the fault of others in an instance. When we can forgive the past and take the effort to build ourselves in many ways. We can learn to move forward and love ourselves. Effort is an amazing game changer. When we get out there and resolve our problems.
Propaganda comes in many forms! Propaganda can be the show you watched where all the rich people have a heart of gold. It could be the show about a leader which only shows one part of their life but leave out all the bad or progressive stuff. I believe many of us have been victims of propaganda. When we mistreat each other because we have been told to think of each other or if you see your friend of a different race as “one of the good ones” You Are A Victim of Propaganda. If you see yourself as “one of the good ones” You Are A Victim of Propaganda. Propaganda is defined as especially bias or misleading information used to promote a cause or point of view. Propaganda can be “your not the solution to your life, We ARE!”. Propaganda is very detrimental to us as human beings and wishes for us to not think critically of it.
In my book Powerfuls I go in depth about thinking critically. Even in school I have had to look outside the class and the text. Question everything given to you it could be a poison hidden in a good meal.
How do you teach a dog to sit? Conditioning! Conditioning is the rewarding of good behavior and the disciplining of bad behavior. Good behavior is when things are done in your best interest. This brings me to modern day rap and music in general. They people reward the talented talentless. The talented talentless dont use music for power but for money. You will hear them be clones of every artist out or stand for nothing of substence. This behavior is rewarded by the people who want you dumb. The substance that used to be in my love rap was lost when we let too many f-ups in. I have heard from many a person to cross over. The way we are rewarded for crossing over is more money but, In the end we lose our soul. Is your soul a good price for money that can be taken away from you? Let’s change this mindset. Why not build for yourself. We are in the age of information. I can put a subject in a search engine and find the cliffnotes about it. Making it faster for me to learn. The outline in The Lazy Mans Hustle helped me achieve many things in life and helped me monetize my skills. Get your copy of The Lazy Man’s Hustle TODAY!!!
LIFE itself should be used to better yourself and others. Your example should positively influence others. They should feel your positive energy in every word you speak and every action you take. This is your stamp on the world. Your seal on the planet. If you don’t bring your improvement into every situation. YOU stay stagnent and ever waiting for your next step. Instead of being proactive in your short time on this planet. To keep me out of a rut, I use the 3 I’s. The 3 I’s are improve, influence, and impact. These 3 I’s will keep you noncomplacent and always growing. When you see your effect on people make them want to improve. You will feel a sense of completeness.