Negativity is one of the worst things in the world. It can hold back the next greatest idea in the world or the next innovation. Negativity can keep you from your next step or even your own greatness. This is why we have to keep negative thing away from you.
What are negative things? Things that hold you back, things that control you for bad, and things that keep you away from your goal. AKA things not conducive to your growth. Not all pain is bad and not all pain is good. But pain can cause growth. One of the best pains is honesty. Honesty with ourselves can help us get to a goal or even grow as a human being. One of my goals is to stay active and energetic. This will come from my discipline and mindset.
Discipline comes from being honest. Honestly telling yourself you need to be consistent. Honestly telling yourself you have an issue. Some of us are not disciplined because we are not honest with our own flaws and shortcomings. We can be the most honest with others but ourselves can be a sore subject to us. Let’s be very honest with ourselves in everything.
Love is in the air this week of Valentine’s. The birds are chirping many are searching but so many are lost on the meaning of love. Love has many faces and many facets. The faces of love can be sweet, passionate, empowering, and tough. The sweet love is what we look for during Valentines. This is the love we see in the movies. Like my favorite movie Hitch. Hitch is a love advisor who falls in love in a movie. He looks for ways to impress the woman he has feelings for. This is what most people who fantasize love want. The perfect kind of love that is freeing and so on. No controlling you or telling you what to do just love. This comes from having a over-fantasization of your parents and caregivers. Most parents/caregivers are selfless human beings. They give you what you need and sometimes what you want. This is the spoiling in a way. Spoiling is another way of saying enabling. Enabling is letting people do and say what they want to their own detriment. Enabling and empowering are sometimes confused. The confusion comes from seeing others getting instant gratification from their detrimental actions and seeing that as empowering them. Empowerment doesn’t come from giving a candy to a baby. The candy can instantly gratify a sweet tooth and a frazzled mother. The empowering choice would be to give the baby water or milk. Water and milk are nutritious for babies. This can help the baby grow into a powerful adult with great comprehension of the world.
Let’s not be enablers! Enablers are lazy and suffer from cowardice. They do love but it’s an overlove that could end with them in an early grave from stress and mistreatment. You must teach others how to treat you. Forgiveness is only for your soul. The trespasser musn’t know you forgave them. Telling the trespasser you forgive them will enable them to do worst. Then you end up stuck in a vicious cycle.
Propaganda comes in many forms! Propaganda can be the show you watched where all the rich people have a heart of gold. It could be the show about a leader which only shows one part of their life but leave out all the bad or progressive stuff. I believe many of us have been victims of propaganda. When we mistreat each other because we have been told to think of each other or if you see your friend of a different race as “one of the good ones” You Are A Victim of Propaganda. If you see yourself as “one of the good ones” You Are A Victim of Propaganda. Propaganda is defined as especially bias or misleading information used to promote a cause or point of view. Propaganda can be “your not the solution to your life, We ARE!”. Propaganda is very detrimental to us as human beings and wishes for us to not think critically of it.
In my book Powerfuls I go in depth about thinking critically. Even in school I have had to look outside the class and the text. Question everything given to you it could be a poison hidden in a good meal.
Hello Beautiful People, I am a big fan of action oriented people. The people that can make something out of nothing. The people that say they can mold something, then mold something. These are the best energies to be around. They never let the bad that could happen control them. They see everything good and say that’s what I need in my life. September 2015 was the moment I became a doer. I was never a great writer. I just had lots of imagination and a humurous way of getting it out. This led me to one of my best friends who was an artist. We brainstormed over many a comic book story. We created one of the greatest underground comic books in ever. It was about the growing political strife in america. It sold well and made a difference in the world of a big few. THis led me to writing the critically acclaimed book The Lazy Man’s Hustle. This is the action oriented me. If you met me at 19, I would be telling you about all my ideas. While working a job I didn’t like. Dealing with all the negative and manipulative energy around me. The doer risk taker is a more beneficial way to be.
I went to see the Wonder Woman Movie this weekend. As a appreciator of comic book characters and superheroes, I have learned how to appreciate their film counterparts. I call many of these loose adaptations to appeal to a grander audience. When we really look into superheroes they are the counterparts of our mundane existences. Seeing them overcome adversity at the hands of their adversaries. Makes us feel like that could be us. From the age of comic books being for nerds who want to beat up that bully or the appeal now with the world wanting to take down one enemy. This is our draw to them. I wrote the book The Lazy Man’s Hustle to get rid of the term “unemployed”. I hated seeing so many people falling victim to it. I felt I had to put my cape on for them. Showing them a new way. #lazymanshustle
Fear, one of the most controlling emotions in the world. Fear can make the lazy act. Fear can make the most powerful cower. Just one sense of loss will make a powerful shake. Why does the author of The author of The Lazy Mans Hustle want to talk about fear? Well I saw how fear can affect a persons journey. The fear of getting out of your comfort zone can affect your growth. Money gets affected by fear everyday. When a doctor was dragged off of a plane. The airlines money was affected by fear. Others saw themselves getting drug off a plane by big scary security guards. This made the media sell the fear even more. Fear made the stocks go down. Fear is also the cause of deflection. Deflection is a fear of honesty. Deflection causes many bad habits to continue. Examples of deflections are “they are doing it too”, “what about your (off topic)”, and “this is my freedom”. Many people have destined themselve to destitution. They will never want to change. They see benefit in being a horrible, lazy, or complicit. There were many people that see benefit in a tyrannical system. They see how well they live in it and let others be destroyed by it. Why are we so fearful to change. Why do we look at others being hurt and add more salt to the wounds. These are all products of fear. Fear of being judged, fear of failure, and fear of success. What if we never let fear affect us? We all would be successful. We would all be thriving. Fearful people never want to see others succeed. It scares them because they have to look at themselves honestly. Lets all stop deflecting from the truth and embrace honesty.