Have you heard of the analogy of the splinter and plank. To paraphrase it is said. Don’t point out the splinter in my eye when you have a plank in yours. I believe it means dont point out\nrowth. a small problem in someone’s life when you have a big problem in yours. Most of us misunderstand this. We will use it against being criticized or even helped.
We need to use this analogy properly. When you have a splinter in your eye you can see the plank in mine way better than I do. We need to help each other see our own faults better and help each other solve them. When we avoid criticism we avoid growth.
Know how to filter between constructive criticism and destructive criticism. Destructive criticism comes from jealousy. It should mean nothing to you but point out a potential enemy! Constructive criticism helps you build and comes from love.
Solutions are one of the most important things in the world. Solutions are the reason why we have the best societal advances available in human history. Someone saw a problem then created a solution for it. The researched the took the proper steps to solve it. It takes courage to create a solution.
It takes courage to create a solution because most people will not see a problem. Therefore they see your solution as an excess or it having a trivial meaning. I have seen many a person frown upon tech advances which them became a necessity. The one that sticks out to me is the creation of the iPhone. When the iphone 1st came out I remember hearing people say that it was a waste of money and that it is a failing trend. Now everyone has either a iphone or spinoff smartphones based on the same design. Smartphones have been a great solution for many people like, business owners, bloggers, parents, etc. This one solution has changed the world.
So we can go back in forth on how to change things but we must come to a solution.