Have you heard of the analogy of the splinter and plank. To paraphrase it is said. Don’t point out the splinter in my eye when you have a plank in yours. I believe it means dont point out\nrowth. a small problem in someone’s life when you have a big problem in yours. Most of us misunderstand this. We will use it against being criticized or even helped.
We need to use this analogy properly. When you have a splinter in your eye you can see the plank in mine way better than I do. We need to help each other see our own faults better and help each other solve them. When we avoid criticism we avoid growth.
Know how to filter between constructive criticism and destructive criticism. Destructive criticism comes from jealousy. It should mean nothing to you but point out a potential enemy! Constructive criticism helps you build and comes from love.
On a beautiful summer day in Virginia, The trees are green and the grass is wavy. The hills bringing a nice hue of green to everything in sight. When I look outside to see a deer looking back at me. Then I become a deer. The deer looking for food in a grassy desert that was once my home. Now, where my bed was is now a patch of nothing! The nothingness that I built from. When I saw the monsters across the way I assumed they would never come to my side of the forest. I thought they would be fed by the trees overthere and not my home. When is a good time to stand for something? When? I noticed more of the village community moved in to my side of the forest after the monsters left. When they would tell me how much pain they felt when the monsters came and took their homes. The homes that had their beds and family. Some lost loved ones. Lots lost a stable enviroment to grow. This is my feeling! I lost all my dreams in hopes with my home. That bed helped me have vision that home would be where my kids would grow. Now gone for the big stone slabs those bipedals worship and get products. Now I must go, that bipedal sees me.
Self-Hate is the most destructive kind of love. Why do I say it is a destructive kind of love? Because What I have observed is that we are not born to hate anything. We are born to learn but definitely not hate. When I see a baby crying for food or attention. I see an entity learning how to fill its belly or satiate a need. There is no hate there. I have never seen a deer hate someone without having a past with that person. I see self-hate as a love of the past.
The past was good to some but was bad to others. When the ones who were mistreated by the past look back they see themselves being mistreated. They just see it at face value nothing more nothing less. When they want to improve themselves they remember the time they wanted to do something different and failed at it. This stops them from trying again out of fear of ridicule and mistreatment. Why is this such a horrible thing? Because success doesn’t happen at a push of the button. Sometimes, you have to push the button till you don’t have a finger to press it anymore.
Self-Hate will hold you back from building relationships. Building relationships is a lost art form. The love of our past makes us live in the past. When we meet people of a certain color, demeanor, or even height. We can be prone to mistreat them because of our past. Self-hate can make our allies look like our enemies and our enemies look like our friends. We can end up helping our enemy and breaking our friends. The same friends that have been with us through thick and thin, Can look like our enemy from one bad day.
Self-hate makes us be very patient with our enemies but very impatient with our friends. Our enemy can be threatening to kill us but self-hate makes us laugh it off. Our friend could forget us at the store one time and we want to break ties with them forever. Why does self-hate make us love our enemies more? Because self-hate wants us dead.
Self-Hate is happy when you handle your problems passively. Self-hate loves to see you stressing from self-inflicted pain. Self-hate will change your life priorities to where you are paying the bar before you pay your bills. To where you are paying the store before paying the bills. Self-hate loves you being a detriment to yourself.
The solution to Self-Hate is very easy. Self-Hate is caused by unresolved conflict. When we are told to forgive someone it is meant to heal yourself. Your mind can play the rationalization game very well. It can make everything look like the fault of others in an instance. When we can forgive the past and take the effort to build ourselves in many ways. We can learn to move forward and love ourselves. Effort is an amazing game changer. When we get out there and resolve our problems.
The POWERFUL mindset is the most life-changing mindset you can have. A POWERFUL mindset will bring great improvement to your life. The Powerful Mindset is obtainable to the positive thinker. The positive thinker says yes to the solution. The Powerful Mindset will simplify the steps to a solution. The Powerful mindset sets deadlines to everything they do. The Power Mindset isn’t very organized aesthetically but is very effective. If you are struggling in life. You must have The Powerful Mindset. The Powerful Mindset is the solution. Believe me, I have had many bad things happen to me in life. I have been the person to let it get to me. I was everyone’s conveniently placed punching bag. When they had a bad day they could rely on me to be a person to mistreat. I would be working on new projects and would have to be yelled at for no reason. I would have to deal with bitter people who have done nothing in their life telling me how to live mine. This would affect me so much I would give up and fester.
The Powerful mindset helped me get out those situations. The Power mindset showed me a way out to improve my life. This mindset helped me write my second book Powerfuls: The Book Of Power Gain. Powerfuls is a step by step book on how to gain a Powerful mindset. It has helped many people gain a better life and achieve their dreams.
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Propaganda comes in many forms! Propaganda can be the show you watched where all the rich people have a heart of gold. It could be the show about a leader which only shows one part of their life but leave out all the bad or progressive stuff. I believe many of us have been victims of propaganda. When we mistreat each other because we have been told to think of each other or if you see your friend of a different race as “one of the good ones” You Are A Victim of Propaganda. If you see yourself as “one of the good ones” You Are A Victim of Propaganda. Propaganda is defined as especially bias or misleading information used to promote a cause or point of view. Propaganda can be “your not the solution to your life, We ARE!”. Propaganda is very detrimental to us as human beings and wishes for us to not think critically of it.
In my book Powerfuls I go in depth about thinking critically. Even in school I have had to look outside the class and the text. Question everything given to you it could be a poison hidden in a good meal.
One of my crazy stories is when I first came back to my hometown after traveling the world. I went to a local bar to observe the local scene to see where I fit. I talk with the friendly bartender and waiters and more of the locals in the bar. When I drink my water at the end of the bar I start feeling people touching me. I turn around and its a random caucasian couple just touching me on my arms, chest and back. When I asked what was their problem. They told me to lighten up it’s just a joke.
The lesson I learned is A Person Will Never Tell You They Are Mistreating YOU!
Writing is a Gods Game! You can create or recreate yours and others lives anyway you want. You can be the successful millionaire or the homeless person with a genius intellect. You can be the protector of your city or destroy it in one swoop of a pen. Your enemies do not have a gray area. You can make them all bad people with evil in their heart. We can make our failures our greatest success. This is The God’s game of writing. This is power you need to keep in your hands. When you lose the gift to create your own story. It goes in the hands of your enemies and people who never knew you. They will get the story from their perspective from their reality of you. You could be the softest teddy bear but they will remember you for the time your eye hit their tooth. This will make you seem like the worst person in the world. They will remember all your failings not the success you brought to yourself and others. This is the fault of social media. We let outsiders see all our inner thoughts and share ratchet memes with each other. These ratchet memes broadly paint us as paranoid love hurt people. When attention became currency big egos became god. The people you may not have said hi to because you are shy. Will see you as stuck up. The world of perspectives is a crazy game.
Let’s learn how to communicate properly and tell our stories before it’s too late!
Privilege? I’ve only heard about it. How it does good and bad for the world? Never experienced it first hand. That made me feel as if money had to be my main focus in life, seeing the other girls come from supportive homes. Little did I know about the sacrifice, being stable came with. Sometimes in life , we get so wrapped in what other people have that you don’t stop to think what they are also missing – you might not. Being humble is a word that can be used so lightly and rarely is put into action. Due to the “lack” of things I wasn’t able to have growing up has made me into someone insightful. I don’t look at things the same. I stop and appreciate everything. From waking up in the morning and the gas in my tank to heading to the gym. Then from the gym to work. Then from work to a quiet place to work on my real dreams. Now , you might ask “ what are those?” I’ll tell you. Dreams are made of the things that make you truly happy. The things you don’thave to second guess. Mind you, I am not talking about money, cars, or fancy houses. I mean real dreams . Peace, Tranquilty, Family, Love, Care and Compassion. I want to be human and live , learn and maybe hurt to heal. Everyone has a different dream they want to achieve . But thanks to the humility I’ve experienced I can look at my goal with clarity and not with greed or a sense of vengeance. When things have gone terribly wrong for me, I do the following. Assess. There is a solution to everything. Up to you to let it happen and watch the demise of something you care about. Yet, on the other hand you can make it happen on your own. I am simple. I don’t like asking for too much if not a necessity. Keeping clear of a cluttered mind is helpful in the art of humility. Don’t ever over think anything. 99% of the time the answer is staring at us in our face. So, the next time you feel doubt is robbing you . Reject that feeling and be grateful for what you have now. Being present is my biggest lesson learned , and thus far my most favorite.I was so stuck in the past that i couldn’t see how bright my future really is. Every day is a stepping stone, don’t miss . Arrogance blinds the real motive. Be Humble and all you’ve ever wanted will be there to set you free.
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Muscle Memory is the retention of certain actions and movements we do. Muscle memory is mainly used in sports and body building. These give athletes the advantage of being able to keep a non active mind and let the body do the work. This is achieved through repetition and most of all constant practice. These are mostly good things to do in life. When you are in the learning process of a job we want to have these muscle memory qualities.
What is a Habit?
A habit is defined as a settled or regular tendency or practice, especially one that is hard to give up. A practice can be the doing yoga to the constant drink at the same place on a daily basis.
We should practice positive habits and find joy from them. These positive habits can be Assertiveness, bravery, discipline, and love. We should practice real love with one another and not the enabler love. These positive practices can be achieved in a matter of months with the right cultivation. I believe habit is muscle memory that our comfort zone has given to us. The comfort zone we should give up on cultivating. The oppressor wants you in your comfort zone. The comfort zone makes you easily controllable. I hate using the word sheeple because sheep can be leaders to the slaughter. These sheep are taught by a master to obey him and kill the sheep’s kin. This is a bad habit to have. Let’s make a new word and call them the Dociles! The people who don’t control themselves and let others delegate their existence. This becomes bad muscle memory.
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