You should be powerful in every situation. Power isn’t always winning a situation but having control in every situation. What should you be able to control in every situation? You should control at least yourself in every situation. The best way to control yourself in every situation is to learn self-awareness. This self-awareness comes from knowing your own limits and reactions in certain situations. If someone or something can easily fluster you in a situation. Then note it and grow from it. Self-Blindness will harm you in the end. Self blindness is the ability to go through a situation without learning anything from it.